What Horses Have Taught Me

I truly cannot imagine where my life would be if I didn’t get into horses. Sometimes people ask me what I would be into if I didn’t get into horses, my response usually is ‘I would probably be very messed up and maybe a druggy’. Now most people think this is a joke, which it sorta is, but if it wasn’t for horses I truly would not be the same person I am today. Here are just a few things horses have taught me over the years.

  1. How to take care of myself
    If you don’t take care of yourself, how are you suppose to care for another living breathing animal. This includes going to bed at a decent hour, staying healthy (because riding and conditioning your horse is a lot harder when you are not). A personal example here is that I needed to learn to take care of a cut on my leg so that you can ride again later. Unfortunately I learned this lesson the hard way. I did not take care of myself and the consequences were another surgery. Taking care of yourself is hard in the equine industry but is vital in order to succeed.
  2. How to make adaptions in life to succeed
    No horse and rider are ever the exact same. Everyone has to continently make changes in order to succeed. This can start anywhere from your horses nutrition, tack, training or with yourself. I can think of one very huge adaptation that I continually have had to make and sometimes struggle with. It is that I can not ride in a saddle with any kind of tooling, or a saddle in an odd shape or in riding pants that have a seam, or the seam can’t lie in a certain place on my leg. This is because I have skin grafting on my legs and if I don’t take this precaution I will get huge sores due to the saddle chaffing the skin away on my legs. So in order to do what I love and succeed I have had to seek out getting custom riding pants or specific breeches and also get gloves customize to fit my 4 fingers.
  3. Strength and balance
    Riding helps build your core, center strength and balance and without it, it is very hard to ride. Trust me! Besides for working out riding has helped me gain all around strength. I realized just how much strength it really took to ride when I lost all of my strength after having my appendectomy. Throughout the healing process I lost a significant amount of my core strength and getting back on a horse felt totally different and it was a lot harder to do the things I once had done so easily.
  4. Confidence and trust
    When working with horses you are working with a living animal that is strong enough to kill you if they wanted to. While working with horses and succeeding you develop a sense of confidence in order to succeed and then this will carry on with you throughout your life.
  5. How to work in a team
    To ride a horse, you and the horse become a team. Riding is about having mutual respect and doing your best in order to be able to succeed at what ever you are doing. I have also learned more about what it is like to work and be on a team through different clubs and teams in the equine industry and being apart of my colleges equestrian team.
  6. How to be a leader
    To be successful with horses you must help be a leader to them and help guide them. I have also learned leadership while helping others gain knowledge to help them succeed in the horses.
  7. How to set goals and succeed at them
    Growing up riding and competing with horses, I got very competitive. In order to succeed I would set goals of what I would want my horse and I to achieve and would take lessons and do my ‘homework’ to achieve that goal in hope that I would do meet that goal at my next horse show.
  8. Responsibility
    Nobody but you is going to get up and feed your horse every morning for you (unless you board-but still you have a lot of responsibilities of caring for horses) or call the vet when needed.
  9. Work Ethic
    If you truly want to be good at something you have to work hard for it, especially with horses.
  10. To be a continual learner and always take advice
    In the horse world nobody knows everything, and if you think you do , You don’t and often people’s respect for you goes down. It is impossible for one person to know every training method, for every discipline, all tack, for all disciplines and all types and breeds of horses and bloodlines and the list goes on. Yes one training method in idea may have worked great for your horse, but each horse and rider are different and it may not work for the next horse. In order to succeed and be successful with horses you must always be learning.
  11. How to manage money, or how not to..
    Okay, we all know horses can be expensive but that being said it is because of horses I have learned how to manage my money. When I first got my horse at 14, my mom and I sat down and set a budget on how much we would be willing to spend on vet bills, heaven forbid if something bad happened to my horse at the time. We also set up a budget when I started showing. Every summer I was given a set budget, each year was slightly different because I wasn’t able to always work due to surgeries and recovery time. But I had the checkbook to manage this account and I had to manage it, if I wanted to go to a show or get a new outfit or tack, would I have enough money? Or was I going to have to work harder to get it?

There you have it! These are just some of the many things that I learned from these amazing animals called horses! If it wasn’t for horses I truly don’t know where I would be in my life today. Thanks for reading! :)